The Story:
Aleksander, 36, from Latvia, was messaged by a woman on Instagram. Her name was “Eva,” and her profile looked normal — a few selfies, some beach photos, nothing too flashy.
They chatted for days. Then she asked, “Do you use Telegram? I’m more private there.”
Once they moved, things got flirtier. Eva started sending voice notes. One night, she sent a 15-second teasing video and asked him to send one back. Aleksander wasn’t shy. He sent a topless video of himself — playful but not too explicit.
That was all it took.
Minutes later:
“Pay €250 now or I’ll send this to everyone you know.”
“Your Facebook. Your mom. Your co-workers. I have screenshots.”
His heart dropped.
She showed him screenshots of his profile, contacts, and Instagram followers. He panicked and paid. Then she asked for more.
Eventually, he blocked her and reported the account — but the fear lingered for weeks. The video was never shared.
The Lesson:
Sextortion doesn’t require full nudity. Scammers thrive on embarrassment and fear. Never send anything you wouldn’t want public — and if you get blackmailed, don’t pay. Block, report, and get help fast.