How to Spot a Scammer Before It’s Too Late
Online dating can lead to real connections — but it’s also full of traps. Scammers are getting smarter, and emotional manipulation is their main weapon. Here are 10 warning signs to watch out for:
They fall in love too fast
“I’ve never felt this way before” – after just a few days? It’s a classic manipulation tactic to build emotional attachment quickly.
They avoid video calls or real meetings
Always an excuse: bad camera, no time, bad signal. If they can’t prove who they are, they might not be real.
They move the conversation off-platform fast
They want to switch to WhatsApp, Signal or Telegram immediately. Why? Less moderation = more control.
They send stolen or overly polished photos
Perfect selfies? Run a reverse image search. Catfishers love fake profiles.
They create emotional drama
Sudden emergencies, family tragedies, or visa issues. Designed to trigger sympathy — and open your wallet.
They ask for money (even small amounts)
Internet bills, phone cards, train tickets — any money request is a massive red flag.
They won’t answer direct questions
Vague answers or changing the topic? That’s how scammers dodge exposure.
Their stories don’t add up
Time zones don’t match, their language feels inconsistent, or their job details shift.
They pressure you for private photos
They make it sound romantic, but it can lead to blackmail (sextortion).
You feel uneasy, but can’t explain why
Trust your gut. If something feels off, it usually is.